World Hijab Day: The Struggle with Hijab

So earlier this month, on February 1st, it was a day that happens once a year called World Hijab Day. It is a day when Muslim women celebrate wearing hijab and share their stories. It is a way for us to support, congratulate and uplift one another in observing our faith as Muslims.

I have been wearing hijab since I was a kid maybe 11 or 12 years old (one and off, I really only count that I started seriously at 17). I remember being in 6th grade and being bullied for it. I was asked if I had cancer, if I was bald and why I was wearing a sheet or towel on my head. I went to a middle and high school where at first I was the only Muslim and as time went on I was one of four muslims. So obviously there wasn't much religious diversity in my school hence the lack of education when it came to why a girl would cover her head. I suspect even if they knew why I was wearing it, I still would have been made fun of, kids are cruel. 

Anyways I like this day because just like wearing hijab itself, it is a reminder that you are not alone. You are not the only one wearing hijab, you are not the only struggling, you are not the only one proud of yourself for ignoring Shaytan and the urge to show your hair.

Because it is hard, in a society where women are sexualized and objectified, covering your body when you want the compliments and to feel and look good by showing your curves, its tempting at times. Don't get me wrong, just because you are muslim and don't wear hijab, doesn't mean you won't be rewarded for the good you do. Being modest is more than just wearing an abaya and hijab, it is about your attitude, your manners and how you treat others.

But in todays world, if you pose a certain way or dress a certain way, you get more likes and attention. Everyone is entitled to do and say and wear what they want but I applaud muslim women and women in general who choose to share with the world their mind, personality and accomplishments rather than physique.

I am not saying someone who does decide to show off certain parts of themselves to the world that they don't deserve respect and they aren't capable of being intelligent. Every person should be respected no matter how they dress and what they show others.

I am simply want to highlight those who struggle through the bullying, through those that call them oppressed or ugly because they cover for their Lord who commanded them too.

Here is a poem I wrote highlighting the Muslim Woman's struggle:

What do you have to hide?

Wrapped head to toe, dress so wide

Head held low, a girl in disguise

Timid and shy in front of guys

Beyond her curves, her nationality 

Is a brain, heart and personality 

The world claims she is not free

But she would have to disagree

No slave to society's expectations

Simply a model to future generations

A symbol of piety, modesty,                   

                  dedication

To her Deen Al Islam and Education

Her cover, her veil, her liberty

For God the Almighty, Bestower of Tranquility

I hope that if you are currently wearing hijab, we humble ourselves and understand that other sisters need time to get to that point. I hope no matter how many years we have worn hijab and will wear hijab In Sha Allah , we remind ourselves why and renew our intentions.

I hope that if you are still on the journey to find Allah and wear hijab that it comes to you, know that everyone struggles with something and we all have sins and flaws. We are constantly learning, growing and discovering so you will get there at the right time !

May Allah bless all my muslim sisters!